Tuesday, August 16, 2011

HOW TO MAKE FRIENDS WITH YOUR ENEMIES?

      Many of us has someone hated or competed against. Maybe it is because of our own characteristic that makes us distinctive but some, misinterpret our personality and behaviors. Here are some of the tips on how to make friends with your enemies. 


STEP 1
Think, why that person has became your enemy. Did you do something that makes him/her indignant? You should prepare yourself to ask forgiveness, even if it is not was completely your fault.


STEP 2
Approach your enemy. Tell him/her that it is not worth it to feel the wrath. Talk and explain the problems between the two of you. Apologize and start over.


STEP 3
Be companionable. They will think that you are no longer want to fight.


STEP 4
Let this person know that you're sincere. You can't make her/him believe completely through talking. Actions speak louder than words. If you see her/him you should give a smile. Be nice. Don't get discouraged if their actions or behavior stays the same or get worst at first, - it's likely that they are suspicious of your suddenly nice nature, be humble.You can get their trust by continuing nice to them.
STEP 5
Love your enemies, be one of their friends and move on. Open your heart, forget and let the past go. You will be happier.



Conclusion: We don't need to have a fight, an enemy or feel any wrath. Maybe some of us are experiencing fun just by doing it but do you think it is the real happiness? One day, you will realize that you will regret something if you continue a war with your enemies. Time will come that there is no one who will stand behind you that no one will care for you and understand you because you already conquered yourself with your ego. In this world, all we need is love and you will be happy.


4 comments:

  1. Love your enemy be one of their friends and move on. Open your heart, forget and let the past go. You will be happier.

    :) good idea.. :P
    tama

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  2. Make friends with your enemies instead of hating them for a peaceful and happier life. Forget about insecurities and set aside all pain that you feels for a better relationship with others.
    Nice conclusion! >)

    -- Sana okaay na tong comment na to. Hahaha!

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  3. I love the message of your blog. Cool. :D

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